Winston Churchill once said:
This is no time for ease and comfort. It is time to dare and endure.
I think for most, if not all, of us who struggle with the unwanted sexual behaviors, ease and comfort is what got us here. We took the easy way out. We did what was comfortable all the while saying, “Well, at least we are not hurting anyone.” Ease and comfort sounds good, but oftentimes it is the one thing that keeps us stuck: stuck in our feelings and emotions, and stuck in relationships. For healing to take place, we need to change our focus and look at what it means to take time to dare and endure.
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